EBENEZER MATHEW

 A real man doesn't make excuses. A real man owns his own mistakes, takes responsibility and doesn't shift the blame. He stands tall, takes ownership of his actions, and takes initiative in making things right. The moment a man realizes the power of the words “I own this”, his life and future begin to take a completely new path. This is because when we take ownership of our actions, we become aware of the things that we have or haven’t done and who or what we are. We become conscious of the need for change in order to ensure a better future. A real man, through his mindful choice of ownership and responsibility, has the power to make a dramatic improvement in his life and the lives of those around him. He has the ability to make an impact on the world and shape people’s lives in a positive way.  Real men are those that embody the qualities of volunteerism, impact-orientation, optimism and discipline. They are dedicated to giving back and making the world a better place. They t...

 It's easy to feel overwhelm when we are facing a challenge in life, especially if it's something we haven't done before or something unfamiliar to us. We can get so caught up in the idea that we need to do something right away that we forget to take it one step at a time and allow ourselves to figure it out as we go.  No matter how big or small the challenge might be, it's important to remember that it takes time for us to figure out what works for us; we all learn differently and have different preferences. That's why it’s so important to start with one step, process the information and move onto the next. It's a much better approach than trying to do too much all at once, because then it can become overwhelming and we can easily make mistakes. Rather than stressing out about all the possibilities, take things one step at a time. Think about what your goals are, figure out what needs to be done, and then take it one step further. It's ok to not always have...

We’ve all heard the adage “When the going gets tough, the tough get going” and it’s fair to say that life often presents us with challenges that seem insurmountable. It can be daunting to start a project that feels like a mountain to climb, or to persist in the face of seemingly impossible odds. No matter how hard the obstacles seem, it’s important to remember that you can’t give up. You can’t succumb to doubt, self-pity, or despair. When you’re ready to give up, your first thought should be, “just don’t.” Don’t let the mountain that lies in front of you daunt you. Don’t let your own self-doubt keep you from achieving your goals. Don’t let failure be an option. Now, it would be silly to suggest that giving up in never an option. There are certainly times when a situation is simply too difficult or beyond our control. In those cases, it may be better to walk away and try something else. But when you’ve got something within your grasp, there’s no reason to stop just because it’s hard. If...